To the rude aunts and uncles of every family reunion ever, we hope you’re listening.
The holidays may be over and most family gatherings may have been kept from happening, but a few local celebrities, namely Janela Salvador and Jennylyn Mercado, are still fuming over the “toxic Filipino trait” that is body-shaming, or relatives giving unsolicited comments about one’s weight.
Can we discontinue this toxic Filipino trait na tuwing nagkikita ang hilig mag komento tungkol sa physical looks ng iba tulad ng –
— jennylyn mercado (@MercadoJen) December 27, 2020
“uy tumaba ka”
It’s not okay. First of all it’s rude, second it may trigger some people na may Ed.
Maling mali.
In a tweet, Descendants of the Sun actress and recently realized “woke” celebrity Jennylyn Mercado vented her frustrations over body-shaming comments from friends, labeling it as “rude” and “toxic.” She added that such comments may also trigger some people’s insecurities borne out of their eating disorders.
Since airing her concern, Twitter users have raided the replies section with their own body-shaming accounts during family gatherings. One user even shared that she’s stopped attending family occasions due to the same, prompting this positive reply from Jennylyn:
Bessie,
— jennylyn mercado (@MercadoJen) December 27, 2020
Your looks and status sa life don’t dictate your worth as a person…
don’t let how they treat you dictate how you live your life
You are worthy just as u are and u deserve to be happy.
I feel so bad don’t know what to say.
I promise once u get older, things will get better.
— jennylyn mercado (@MercadoJen) December 27, 2020
Your perspective changes, and things you think matters don’t really matter anymore.
I hope u get to surround urself with good people…
Meanwhile, The Killer Bride standout star Janella Salvador also had beef with body-shamers, sharing in a tweet that “Filipinos are the worst body shamers.”
Filipinos are the worst body shamers.
— Janella Salvador (@superjanella) December 26, 2020
Let me enjoy my christmas pudding in peace. Happy holidays to you too! ?
Her bold comment comes after netizens left rude replies on her recent Instagram video saying that she’s gotten bigger since moving to England.
In the video, Janella is seen happily spending the holidays with her partner, Markus Peterson, while dancing to the music of “Holly Jolly Christmas.” The actress moved to Englan last September, a little after confirming her and Markus’ romance.
We know Christmas is the season of giving, but that shouldn’t include giving out hurtful, humiliating, and worst of all, unsolicited body-shaming comments. You’re not being smart by pointing out what the person probably already knows and is dealing with, Tita Jocelyn. So please, keep your comments to yourself.